Urmila, who was in her thirties, suddenly decided that she could no longer support her son, daughter-in-law, and husband who were abroad and that she wanted to live on her own. She wanted unconditional freedom from all relationships, but her husband did not agree to live separately.
Her husband said that when the children grew up, the family became mature, and now it was time for the two of them to live together. However, Urmila remained steadfast in her decision to live her own way.
Everyone in the village knows about Urmila and Rajan. They are known as an example of a happy couple in society. Thirty-four years of successful married life, two brothers and a son are all out, but today Urmila is asking the court to rule in her favor by saying that she wants to live separately from her husband.
The judge's question: "Is your husband involved in any other place, or with any other woman?"
Urmila replied with a smile: "There is no one in his life except me." I am his "favorite and first wife."
"So, does he torture you? Does he have a habit of beating you up by intoxicating you?"
"In the past, he used to stop raising his hand and insulting you. But still, sometimes he insults me - in response, I also insult him back. Because I am also a working woman, I earn enough with my earnings, I don't need to stretch my hands." Urmila said.
Judge: "The relationship is fine, why did you decide to separate?"
Now, after hearing what I said above, our relationship may seem fine, Judge. But my thirty-four years of fatigue, the daily grind, that terrible night when I had to sleep crying with my children every night. No one knows these things. In the eyes of society and my family, my husband is a good man, a good father, a good boss. But he could never be a good lover for his wife.
We got married at a young age after falling in love or flirting for a few days. I thought our life would be spent in love like this, but after going with him, that love and affection disappeared.
My wife was only cooking, taking on the burden of work, and enduring the insults of my mother-in-law in my life. Even then, I earned a little, but in the hope of getting love back, I took on the responsibility of the family. But nothing like that happened, then I made a name for myself by doing public service, and he also got a job.
After some time, I had a child, some changes occurred in my body, sleepiness in my eyes, fatigue in my body, after having a child, I realized that I was not in his heart.
My office colleagues were very important to him. I was just a family member, not the girlfriend he brought with love.
I have said it not once, but many times, to move forward by loving each other like before, I want to be your girlfriend again, but he never listened. I still hoped, because I did not want to let my sons be deprived of their father's love. But my husband? He never wanted to understand my wishes.
He praised my 'tolerance' to his office and social friends and gave me the title of 'best wife'. But he never gave me love.
I could not become his close friend even once, he never asked 'how are you?'.
He tastes the taste of life himself, hanging out with his colleagues, chatting in the kitchen every evening, but did he give me time? Did he take me for a walk?
It has been thirty-four years since we got married, thirty-one years I have fulfilled my mother's duty, I have ended my life in his name. What have I got in return - except emptiness and loneliness.
But now I do not want to live as a 'housewife' in his house. I want to live as an independent person. I want time to watch the rising sun in the morning, I want time to write my feelings on the pages of my diary at night. I do not want to cook food for him in the morning, wash his clothes and wash the dishes. I do not want to live where feelings do not match, now I want a little happiness in my own way. I want some peace where I don't have to explain to anyone. I want a little love for myself...
Have I asked for anything more than this?
I have given up the life I was born as a woman, now that young age of 16-17 will never come back. I want to travel this world, I want to enjoy myself not under anyone's pressure but by my own desires..
Therefore, I want to make myself free. The measure of a relationship is not by taking any responsibility, but by finding a new love for life.
After listening to Urmila's words, the entire court was shocked, after hearing such honest and deep things, there was nothing to say to anyone. Suddenly, tears welled up in the judge's eyes..
Every relationship in life without love is broken inside, even if you live in your husband's house, you remain only a responsibility. And when the responsibility is not satisfied, the soul cries and even at the age of fifty-five, sixty, people want to get rid of their partner.
